Husky. Chunky. Big. Chubby. Fat.
Call it what you want, but know that not all women prefer to date a tall sack of bones. I have a confession to make, if you all didn’t know this already–I am a proud ‘chubby chaser.’ I wasn’t always into dating big men, but ultimately it was just a result of inexperience. After my first real encounter with dating a big man, I knew they were the kind of men I liked and wanted. There were truly significant differences between me dating a skinny guy and a big man. For the record, most of the things people think are hindrances when being as small as I am and dating big men are false. I’m not telling you to date all big men, but there are some that are truly worth going for. Here are 10 advantages to dating big men that all women should know about. Let’s get into it!
There isn’t a safer place for you than in his arms.
This was the first thing I experienced when I went on my first date with a big man. After he picked me up from my door (and didn’t text me “I’m outside”) he hugged me and I literally melted right into him. It’s just something about the extra cushion that does it for me. I can’t lie.
He’s a cuddling professional.
Obviously, he’s the best to cuddle with. Think of him as a giant teddy bear that can talk back to you and kiss you. He’s super gentle, too. The way he holds you and touches you is truly mesmerizing. It’s a bit mind-blowing that he can be so gentle.
Period. I don’t know very many big men who are straddling the fence. I don’t mean any harm or offense–I’m just keeping it real.
He has good hygiene.
In my experience, he’s clean. He makes sure he smells good. He keeps up with his facial hair–God bless the big man with a beard, literally my kryptonite. For whatever reason smaller men don’t think they can sweat just as much as a big man, but a big man already knows he’s gotta put in a little extra in this department. I’m just saying, a big man likes his space clean, his ass clean, and his girl clean. What’s not to love about that?
He can cook.
I’m not talking about throwing some sauce on a couple of noodles. This man can throw down! He’s a beast in the kitchen and usually on the grill. If you don’t think a man in the kitchen is sexy… we probably don’t agree on anything!
He loves to eat and makes sure you get your meals in, too.
A big man’s gotta eat, but he won’t do it without you. Women love that a man cares enough to feed us when we’re hungry. I’ve learned that with dating big men, they’re going to make sure you’ve eaten and they won’t hold an extra pound or two over your head.
He’s confident in himself.
Contrary to popular belief, a big man is usually very confident in himself. He’s not shallow and he isn’t full of himself. He’s a gentlemen, funny, and charismatic. He’s just the right amount of confident with a little dash of cocky–because let’s face it, he’s got to be–and it’s sexy AF.
He’s in tune with his sensitive side.
Because he has the level of confidence we just talked about, he’s not afraid to be in tune with his sensitive side as well. He’s not a pushover, but he doesn’t mind listening to you vent. And I promise you, he’ll be able to respond with more than “damn bae, that’s crazy.”
He’s passionate in bed.
A result of all the previously mentioned is the birth of a true beast in the sheets. I’m not even going to try to describe it because… sheesh. I already told you about how sensual he is with the body and I wasn’t lying. He explores the body. He also takes his time. It’s been scientifically proven that big men last around 7 minutes longer than the average sized man. He takes real pleasure in pleasing you and he won’t stop until he does. And last, but certainly not least…
He loves to eat.
So, there you have it ladies. One time for all my cuddly, chubby lovers out there!