Yes, I know. It’s feels a little awkward to admit it, but that’s okay. Always remember statistics are always a Google search away. Give it a whirl and you’ll see that you’re not alone in your interests for reading today’s post. As beautifully individual as we were all created, we all feel differently about masturbating. This is not intended to upset or offend anyone who does not feel comfortable engaging in the act… nevertheless, don’t spoil it for the rest of us! Let’s get into it!
It releases tension.
Including but not limited to the obvious, sexual tension. Pretty self-explanitory.
It relieves stress.
We learned a long time ago that sexual release is a great stress reliever. Handling business yourself doesn’t make any difference! Go for it!
It’s an additional boost of energy in the morning.
Again, it’s no different from great morning sex aside from the fact that your indulging in a little self love this time around.
It’s a great replacement for sleeping aids.
I’m not going to go into detail here, as an adult, I believe we all should know that “a good release makes for great sleep.” We’ll come back to this..
It allows you to explore your own body and sexual desires.
It’s true. Knowing how to handle business by yourself and to do it well–well, that says a lot. It means you are consciously learning your sexual being and the curves of your body. Keep in mind that it’s never too late to do this.
If you find that you’re not fully living during sex, you may want to work on exploring your own body and desires more. If you can learn your body enough to handle things yourself, you’re likely to be able to direct the next person made responsible!
It’s an excellent form of relaxation.
I’m always making a conscious effort to show you that being a sexual being is perfectly healthy. I don’t think there is ever a time or an act that you can’t please or pamper yourself and I don’t see this as being any different. There are a number of ways to actually accomplish the main goal of the business, but again you are the one who is completely in control.
You get to choose the music.
Pick the place. Choose the guy. Explore the fantasy. Set the atmosphere. You have free range to get as into it as you want to. You create the experience that you want to have with this. Also, take a trip to the adult novelty store, so you can upgrade from twiddling your thumbs. There’s more than enough fun things to try. You won’t regret it.. until your batteries run out. Ha!
It keeps you from sleeping with #YouKnowWho and #WhatsHisName
I could go on about this for days, but no need. I’m sure I’m not the only one who has wished for a little more discipline in the past and this is a great help for those times exactly. Plus there’s no ‘walk-of-shame’, crazy-girlfriend drama, broken hearts and all that other stuff you’re normally worrying your head about.
IT IS A COMPLETELY NORMAL THING TO DO.
You are not alone. Period.
You know ladies, the fellas don’t really have an issue admitting to masturbating, but I know how hard we can be on ourselves as women most times. If it’s not for you that is completely okay… but for those of you who do find good use for it, that is perfectly okay as well.
It can be a very beautiful experience every time. You should keep the experience a private one, allowing you to get comfortable with your own body and your own vulnerabilities. Anyway, I’m always here to offer my honest opinion and I gotta admit it… I would recommend it to all the single people I know–and not just single people, couples in long distance relationships and couples suffering a dull sex life as well.
Oh! And don’t worry… you won’t go blind or anything. I mean, I don’t think too much of anything good is good for you, so don’t go overboard. Self-control is a virtue, but give it a go.
You know if you’re not encouraged to explore life by anyone else, you will always hear it from me! Here’s to a good night!
Peace, love, and light, dear reader.