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Postpartum Life Be Like: 6 Weeks Into Motherhood

“Hi, I’m Flower!” The wait is finally over. Meet my Flower, everybody. Harper just turned 6 weeks on Wednesday and I am so glad to finally introduce her to you all. As you can see from the picture, she is very full of life! I wonder where she gets that from! Harper at 6 Weeks: Loves bathtime. Loves to smile. Loves to eat. Loves The Isley Brothers. Loves being read to. Loves being held. Can yell. Can play. Can communicate using facial expressions. Can recognize voices. Dislikes car rides. Dislikes bright light. Dislikes when mommy is working at the computer. I shared […]


How Being A Mom Made Me More Desirable To Men 5

Having a baby is no small task. Being able to wear pregnancy as a single mother is not an easy appearance to put forth, but with the right attitude it is completely possible. Although my circumstances weren’t ideal, I was genuinely happy with the thought of having a child. It showed. Along with my genuine happiness for an opportunity to raise life, I believe there are a few other things that come with being a mom that made me more desirable to men. Before you sign off, hear me out. When I found out I was pregnant one of my first […]


An Open-Ended Letter To The Guiltless Baby Daddy

This is my fault..


Postpartum Life Be Like: My Birth Story and What I’ve Learned in Week 1 1


My Flower has finally blossomed. My little girl is finally here. She turned a week old Wednesday and it’s truly been the most exciting, exhausting, meaningful week of my life. It is miraculous how much having a baby changes your life. At the time I could only speak on how much your life changes when you find out you’re pregnant, but now I know that isn’t even comparable to how your life changes when your little blessing finally arrives. I am so excited about sharing our journey with you.. So, let’s get into it! Continue reading


A Love Letter For My Darling Daughter 3

I want to share something personal with you today. Is that alright?  As I patiently await the arrival of my daughter, I found it relevant to share my first love letter to her along with some pictures from my maternity shoot under the creative direction of Photographer Ayanna Fairbanks (who I will be interviewing soon!). Every time I see these pictures; every time I read this letter… I cry. I have never felt so fulfilled in my entire life. I hope that you can share those same sentiments with me as I welcome you into this very personal, life-altering chapter of […]


“I F*cked Up..”: How to Apologize When You (Really) Messed Up

Okay, before we get into things, let us first acknowledge that nobody is perfect. I get that. However, that is not a good enough reason to neglect knowing how to apologize to someone when you’ve done something wrong. It doesn’t mean you cheated, it could simply be a time you didn’t show them support when they needed it most. Either way, the key to any lasting relationship is forgiveness–but it’s kind of hard to forgive someone who didn’t even apologize for their actions. When I came up with this topic, I sat and thought of real-life examples in my own life. Whether I […]


VIDEO: Giving Birth & The Feels That Follow 1


On Friday’s you can expect new GoddessColumnTV videos and I thought what better way to start the first episode of the new year than to celebrate a very momentous occasion in my life. Today is a very exciting day for me as I am happy to reach my 38th week of pregnancy and I can truly start to prepare myself for giving birth. There were many people who requested that I documented my pregnancy more after I wrote “Dear Mommy, I’m Not A Mistake”, but it was very important for me to give myself enough valuable time to accept and grow with my pregnancy. I’m finally at a place where I can share a little bit more about how it now that I”m just two weeks before giving birth! Continue reading