I’ve been quiet about the details of my divorce, not because I’m hiding anything, but because I’ve needed space to understand what actually happened. What I’ve learned is this: I spent too much time trying to love the man he was, long after he had become someone different. This isn’t about blame. It’s about clarity….
If I could sit my younger self down and tell her three things, this would be one of them. One of the clearest lessons I learned during that strange, still season of “quarantwenty‑twenty” was this: You do not have to be a kind of woman. Every woman deserves the space to be exactly who she is…
When I first started writing, I wasn’t a mother yet. I was just a woman with a voice, a dream, and a growing audience. And then, right as my work began to take shape in the world, I found out I was going to be a mommy. By the time the pandemic hit, my daughter…
I don’t talk about my beliefs often because people can be reckless with their opinions. And I’m finally at a place in my life where I don’t argue with ignorance. Still, I also refuse to sit quietly while someone disrespects the God who has carried me through every season of my life. Yes, we are…